A Return to the Third Floor and Noise in Indonesia

The roof is almost finished with the exception of some work on the railings, my bedroom on the third floor is almost back to normal although I have to re-varnish all the closet doors as they are speckled with paint. Even though the roof is supposed to be just the roof and not a hang-out place, it looks like it is going to be a popular hang-out place with the immediate family and other relatives in the neighborhood.

Besides having the roof almost done, moving back to the third floor has been the highlight of the past six weeks. Indonesians have a great tolerance for noise; they love making noise and they can put up with an amazingly diverse array of pops, bangs, shouts, screams, roars, and tinny calls to prayer. As an old Westerner, I’m happy with a relatively quiet environment. During my six weeks in exile from the third floor, I lived in the family room on the second floor. I found that sitting out on the second floor balcony having a cigarette was almost the same as sitting out in front of the house in terms of noise pollution. I became familiar with life on the street. This kampung is full of kids of all ages. Now that mine are almost all teens and wired, they spend a lot of their time online with friends, but when they were younger they lived on the street in front of the house playing with friends until I’d call them in for bed. Not unlike my behavior many decades earlier in Chicago. They learned to be able to tolerate loud noises for long periods of time. My kids, just like every other Indonesian that I know, can fall asleep in the noisiest of places: at family gatherings, in the middle of crowded ferries, sitting in airport departure lounges. For them, as for my wife, they have a difficult time understanding my need for quiet. So now that I am back on the third floor, there is enough distance between me and the street to dampen a lot of the noise, and the fourth floor is positively peaceful.

The issue of noise and foreigners arose partly because of my temporary life above the street but also because this is the month of Ramadan and prayer calls, Qur’an readings and kids messing around blast out of the loudspeakers of mosques around the archipelago. One of the latest stories on this issue is the saga surrounding an old foreigner living in Lombok who has been accused of entering a mosque and turning off the loudspeakers. He denies this action and the police and allegedly the villagers claim that he did this and is thus responsible for the bedlam that followed when the villagers went on a rampage and destroyed the contents of his house. This story will continue to play out for a while, but things don’t look good for the American regardless of his guilt or innocence.

This incident has brought out the usual idiotic remarks by some foreigners and Indonesians. Foreigners love parading their fantasies of shooting out mosque loudspeakers and complaining bitterly about the intolerance of Muslims, Indonesians or Islam. Indonesians love using the “if you don’t like it go home, this is our country” card. As far as I’m concerned the five prayer calls a day and the use of the mosque loudspeakers for community announcements is fine (I’d like the mosque elders to turn down the volume, but the uselessness of that goes back to Indonesian’s love of noise), but the protracted readings of the Qur’an and the use of the loudspeakers by kids is far beyond reasonable. As far as going home, that’s just such a lame argument that no one with any sense pays attention to it anymore.

The result most likely to come out of all this fuss is a continuation of the status quo. The American will either have some cash and buy his way back into grace or he will be deported. The mosques will continue to blast prayers and messages throughout the day and foreigners will continue to whine and complain. That’s Indonesia.

More Birthdays, an Anniversary, Continuing Construction and Ramadan

Last week was Rebecca’s 17th birthday and that ended the birthday party season for us that started in May. The next birthday is my eldest son’s, but as he’s in America that one doesn’t involve a party. Next party is not until December when Meredith has her 12th. Keeping with the promise everyone made about exchanging their traditional big parties for a family vacation in Singapore, we “only” had family and a few friends from the kampung. As usual, Su cooked and baked enough food to feed dozens and dozens even though our family here is only around twenty. Now that the birthday parties aren’t such a enormous deal, I find them easier to live through.

Last week passed by without me realizing that the 21st anniversary of my move to Indonesia had arrived. Most of the time it seems that I have lived here far longer than 21 years. Occasionally, now, I get these little flashes where I’m in another place and another time. The other place and other time being a place and time where I’ve been before. But, that’s a whole other issue probably related to the three strokes last year. So, 21 years in Indonesia. I’ve lived on three islands during that time, held a number of different teaching/administrative jobs, and produced four kids with my wife. I’d probably be more serene and satisfied with all this if I hadn’t been living in a construction zone for the last five weeks.

Construction continues to go on daily with a crew appearing precisely at 8 am and leaving sometime around 5, although occasionally some of them stay until nightfall. Everything on three floors is coated with a fine layer of dust and banging, drilling, shouting, buzzing invade my consciousness continuously. The concrete roof has been completed, a bale bengong now sits in the middle of the roof (my wife’s idea not mine), the stairs have been finished that lead from the third floor to the roof, and most of the work on repairing my room on the third floor has been completed although, apparently, it could take another ten days or so to complete all this. I have this overwhelming desire to get back to the third floor which is cooler than the family room on the second floor and where I feel comfortable and can write. However, the problems that I have been having with concentration and writing may be related as much to Ramadan as to issues related to construction.

We’re halfway through Ramadan now. Lebaran is about two weeks away now. I’m looking forward to the end of Ramadan not so much because of food (well not at all because of food) but because it creates havoc with sleeping and transportation schedules. Some of the schools here have students coming in to start at 6:00 am which is fairly ridiculous as kids here tend to stay up late watching tv with the family or are out in the kampung or desa with their friends. I’m not sure how these really early times got started but they are about as much in tune with the reality of the modern world as is the U.S. School schedules that revolve around planting and harvest. It’s time schools got in tune with the 21st century. People have electricity and stay up late watching tv and hanging out with friends. The school day does not need to start at 6.

Building as a Distraction

Building in Bali is a great way to distract yourself from other issues in life. We began construction on the house that we live in in 1996 and completed the house in 1998. So, our house is between 12 and 14 years old. Not very old in the real world, but in the tropics, especially along the seashore, things age quickly. One of the jokes about Bali is that it is the land of instant antiques. Leave a house alone for a few years, and it looks likes it’s been around forever.

In our kampung, roofs are the biggest problem that people have with their houses. People use two basic roofing materials: metal sheeting or terra cotta tiles. We’ve used the tiles along with wood, plastic and assorted materials on the borders, ceilings and gutters. Over the past few years, we’ve regularly had to repair our roof and ceilings after each rainy season ended. Besides the cost involved, we could count on having a leaky roof by the time we were midway through the rainy season. For someone like me who has a bedroom/office filled with electronic equipment, these leaks also meant worrying about wet floors and shorted out computers, scanners, printers and televisions. Then, too, there was the worry of parts of our roof flying off into space during a particularly bad storm and ended up on top of one of our neighbors. So, we finally decided on tearing the whole roof down and building a flat, concrete roof similar to the style common in India and Pakistan.

As I’ve been struggling over the past six weeks with recovering from dengue fever, it seemed like an ideal time to begin the construction of a new roof in order to forget about being ill. Life over the past few weeks has become an uninterrupted stream of workers trodding up and down the stairs to reach the third floor, building materials being hauled up and down via pulleys, cement dust floating through the air and settling on furniture, food and residents, and an ungodly din every day from 8 am until 5 pm.

The old roof is now gone and the cement has been laid. We still have a way to go before things are finished, but we’re getting there. The workers have all disappeared for a three-day break for ceremonies back in their village, so I took the opportunity to see what everything looks like from the top of the house. It hasn’t been cheap (it should pay for itself by 2020), but the new roof is going to be a pleasant place to get away from everything and enjoy the view of the city, the mountains and the sea.

And Still Another Singapore Visa Run

Visa runs. When I take a look at my posts over the last few years, there have been more than a few on visa runs to Singapore. The ones that were company-sponsored were good because they were free. Ticket and hotel paid for, I had nothing to do except go and do some shopping and turn around and come back home. Now that I’m retired, I have to pay the bills for these trips although they have gotten cheaper with the advent of Air Asia and low-cost flights to Singapore.

Six months of a social budaya passed quickly and with problems converting it to a KITAS (and with an upcoming family trip to Singapore), I decided to leave for a day, return on a tourist visa for a week and then apply for a new social visa when I return next week. I managed to score a relatively low-cost flight and did the trip was just over $100. Just to get an idea of how low that fare is, I used to pay $250 to fly the seaplane from Sumbawa to Bali. I decided to pass on the hotel in Chinatown that I like and took a slightly less expensive place on Bencoolen Street. Still not cheap in comparison with Indonesian hotels, but my move was a test of options. I think that next time, I’ll go with the cheaper places in the red-light district of Singapore.

As I was cooling my heels at an airport cafe with a scotch on the way out, I kept thinking of a blog that I read just before I left the house about problems with Bali. It’s hardly the first that I’ve read over the past year as expats especially get frustrated with dealing with immigration, infrastructure problems, the high costs of imported goods and a seemingly endless series of changes or reinterpretations to existing rules and regulations regarding foreigners. Upon arrival in Singapore, a minute at the immigration counter rewarded me with a free 90-day visa. No hassles, no questions, no sly smiles and requests for gifts or presents. No $25 for a 30-day visa. And Singapore? I’m always amazed by the cleanliness and the appearance of order. You can smoke here, not there. You can use your car in this district, but you have to pay a fee if it’s during a certain time of the day.

I drove down to the airport with Daughter #2 and the ride was the usual death-defying experience of dodging trucks, lunatic teenagers without helmets, and government employees convinced that their special plates give them the right to drive like idiots. So, yes when faced with this reality, Singapore seems like a respite from reality.

All these issues – immigration, driving, corruption, sliding versions of the law – bounced around in my head for my 24 hours in the Lion City. Then back to reality once again. The friendly neighborhood immigration folks grabbed a kid in front of me because he didn’t have a ticket out. Expecting the worst, I received my tourist visa without comment in 170 seconds for my $25. OK, pricey for Asia, but quick and competent. I was impressed.

The whole family leaves in a few days for what will probably be our last big family trip. While, I’m looking forward to the trip as a whole, I keep worrying about any issues that may come up with immigration either on the way out or the way in. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to live somewhere where there were actually laws that everyone followed?

Sometimes You Just Have to Relieve a Little Stress (Even in Paradise)

With all the positive writing about life in Bali that I’ve been doing recently, I should have guessed that it was only a matter of time before “the bad stuff” starting jumping out to bite me. I even found that the doctor that my wife and children use knew all the right meds to prescribe for me after I had another stroke recently, and he prescribed the correct meds for Daughter No. 2 after she ended up with some nasty cuts from a motorbike spill. Not only did he get the prescriptions right, but he charged us the normal Indonesian fee. A doctor that I can trust here was just too good to be true. I should have started looking around the corner when last week our long-time dentist decided to start charging us a special fee for foreigners. At least he was quite honest about it. That didn’t, however, keep my wife from being infuriated.

So, when I received word this week that immigration was not going to grant me a wife-sponsored visa because our marriage papers weren’t in order (her identity card lists her as Muslim, our marriage papers list the ceremony as Christian), I should have seen it coming and been prepared. But, I wasn’t. I have to leave the country to renew my social visa and start over again on the KITAS. Stressor No. 1.

Daughter No. 1′s quest for finding the right university continues on. This phase will entail three trips to Surabaya over the next three weeks. My wife will be taking all three trips, leaving me with the three kids (one of whom hates my cooking and kindly forces some down although based on the look on her face she’d rather be eating worms). So, who’s paying for the three trips? Me, of course, and I hadn’t bothered to budget all these extra costs into Daughter No. 1′s education fund. Stressor No. 2.

Rain, rain, rain. Last week we went through what I rate as the third-worst storm in my 20 years here. Two sections of the third story roof blew off. Fortunately, no one below was injured, but I’ve had to rip down part of the roof because it’s become structurally unsafe. We’re going to have to replace the whole thing whenever the rainy season actually comes to an end. Stressor No. 3.

What happened to the reasons I love Bali cheers? They were put temporarily on hold as I ranted endlessly about life here. My doctor said get rid of the stress. The fourth stroke could be the last. Hmm. How to do that in the face of these problems causing havoc with my carefully planned budget?

Road trip!

I searched back to my early days in Bali. What was it that initially attracted me to Bali? It wasn’t my first week in Kuta; it was the trip from Denpasar to Kalibukbuk on the bus that traveled up through Pupuan with the most incredible scenery. I fell in love with this island right then on the bus while chatting in my limited Indonesian with an old Balinese grandmother.

So, road trip to Pupuan. I took off a few days ago and just drove through one small village after the next on my way up the mountain range by Seririt. I’d hit a crossroads, think about where to turn, decide that it didn’t matter as I could go anywhere, do anything, be anybody. I spent four hours driving around taking photographs, chatting with folks, and being enveloped in the sensualness of the island. I stopped by an old favorite restaurant in the tourist area of Lovina for a few beers on the way home. The staff was polite, friendly and totally non-intrusive. It was a revitalizing trip. I need more of them to keep in touch with why I came here, what I love about the place, and how I can stay relatively stress-free in Paradise.