A Return to the Third Floor and Noise in Indonesia

The roof is almost finished with the exception of some work on the railings, my bedroom on the third floor is almost back to normal although I have to re-varnish all the closet doors as they are speckled with paint. Even though the roof is supposed to be just the roof and not a hang-out place, it looks like it is going to be a popular hang-out place with the immediate family and other relatives in the neighborhood.

Besides having the roof almost done, moving back to the third floor has been the highlight of the past six weeks. Indonesians have a great tolerance for noise; they love making noise and they can put up with an amazingly diverse array of pops, bangs, shouts, screams, roars, and tinny calls to prayer. As an old Westerner, I’m happy with a relatively quiet environment. During my six weeks in exile from the third floor, I lived in the family room on the second floor. I found that sitting out on the second floor balcony having a cigarette was almost the same as sitting out in front of the house in terms of noise pollution. I became familiar with life on the street. This kampung is full of kids of all ages. Now that mine are almost all teens and wired, they spend a lot of their time online with friends, but when they were younger they lived on the street in front of the house playing with friends until I’d call them in for bed. Not unlike my behavior many decades earlier in Chicago. They learned to be able to tolerate loud noises for long periods of time. My kids, just like every other Indonesian that I know, can fall asleep in the noisiest of places: at family gatherings, in the middle of crowded ferries, sitting in airport departure lounges. For them, as for my wife, they have a difficult time understanding my need for quiet. So now that I am back on the third floor, there is enough distance between me and the street to dampen a lot of the noise, and the fourth floor is positively peaceful.

The issue of noise and foreigners arose partly because of my temporary life above the street but also because this is the month of Ramadan and prayer calls, Qur’an readings and kids messing around blast out of the loudspeakers of mosques around the archipelago. One of the latest stories on this issue is the saga surrounding an old foreigner living in Lombok who has been accused of entering a mosque and turning off the loudspeakers. He denies this action and the police and allegedly the villagers claim that he did this and is thus responsible for the bedlam that followed when the villagers went on a rampage and destroyed the contents of his house. This story will continue to play out for a while, but things don’t look good for the American regardless of his guilt or innocence.

This incident has brought out the usual idiotic remarks by some foreigners and Indonesians. Foreigners love parading their fantasies of shooting out mosque loudspeakers and complaining bitterly about the intolerance of Muslims, Indonesians or Islam. Indonesians love using the “if you don’t like it go home, this is our country” card. As far as I’m concerned the five prayer calls a day and the use of the mosque loudspeakers for community announcements is fine (I’d like the mosque elders to turn down the volume, but the uselessness of that goes back to Indonesian’s love of noise), but the protracted readings of the Qur’an and the use of the loudspeakers by kids is far beyond reasonable. As far as going home, that’s just such a lame argument that no one with any sense pays attention to it anymore.

The result most likely to come out of all this fuss is a continuation of the status quo. The American will either have some cash and buy his way back into grace or he will be deported. The mosques will continue to blast prayers and messages throughout the day and foreigners will continue to whine and complain. That’s Indonesia.

10 Reasons Why I Live in Bali

Last post had the negatives of living in Bali and how I deal with them. They’re irritating, but manageable. What’s the balance? Balance is a key way of life for Indonesians of all religions and ethnicities. I’ve been looking for that balance for many years now, and I feel like I’m getting closer to achieving it, but I’ve still got a ways to go. Here are my 10 reasons why I choose to live in Bali.

1. Family. Most of my family is here. I’d like to see the ones in the States, but health and travel costs are constraining factors so I have to content myself with emails. My family here loves Indonesia and Bali, and that’s one thing that keeps me living here.

2. Smiles. Sounds syrupy-sweet enough for me to choke on, but on my way back from Ubud earlier this week, I drove up through Kintamani and down to Singaraja from there. As I drove through the villages along the road, lots of smiles and waves. They had nothing to do with insincerity or wanting something for nothing. These were folks who were never going to see me again. They were just being friendly and that’s worth a lot in this world.

3. Family and community life: People take care of each other, show concern for each other, and can usually be counted on to help when help is needed. I know that my children will take care of me some day if I become too ill to get around or too senile to be useful. No nursing homes, no visiting one day a month. Elderly people are still respected here, just as little ones are too. Walking down the street in my poor kampung is always a pleasure just because of the little exchanges and pleasantries that make life comfortable. A lot of my neighbors are poor as can be, but it doesn’t effect their innate human dignity or their delightful sense of humor.

rainbow over Singaraja

4. The physical beauty of the island. Just driving up through the Ubud area to Kintamani and down to Singaraja offers enough breathtaking vistas to satisfy me for weeks. Over developed or not down south, this island is still gorgeous and the scenery is all free.

5. Pace of life. Sometimes the “tomorrow” or “soon” answer to getting something done can be irritating, but the flexibility of time is something that, as I’ve written about some many times before, I’m learning to accept and appreciate.

6. The sound of the sea. I live seaside and for a lover of seas and oceans that alone is enough to keep me here forever. I love being able to snorkel in front of my house. I love watching the neighborhood kids line up along the sea wall trying to catch small fish.

7. The weather. I admit that I’m tired of the rainy season right now, but most of the time the weather is lovely. The heat and dryness up in Singaraja keep my old battered bones from aching more than they would if I lived in a cold climate.

8. Religion/spirituality. Actually this is a complaint that a number of expats have about living here. Whether it’s the money that Balinese spend on ceremonies or the sound of the prayer call for folks living next to a mosque. I appreciate the way that religion is integrated into daily life.

9. Cost of living. OK, let’s be practical. Life is cheaper here than in the States. Cost of living continues to rise in Indonesia, but it’s still a long way from what it would cost us to live in the States. I’m retired now. That would never have happened in America. I want a chance to take some time, reflect on life, enjoy my kids, fool around with my pets, and read and write to my heart’s content.

10. My wife. 19 years and counting. She’s a mixture of Madura and Bali with lots of Madurese temper. She keeps me grounded, deals with those daily irritations that I don’t want to have to deal with and puts up with my American eccentricities. I would never had made it here without her.

Will I be here until I die? I don’t make big pronouncements about what I’m going to do anymore. Life just has this way of sneaking up and shuffling the deck just when you think that you have all the cards counted. I’m planning on being here until the end, but life here is something of a magical mystery tour. I’m just along for the ride.

Why I Choose to Live in Bali: or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Bali (with apologies to Stanley Kubrick and Terry Southern)

Traveling around the island is one of those activities that I should do more often. I get to take the bike out for a few bursts of speed on safe stretches of highway, I remember once again just how physically beautiful this island is, and I get a chance to talk with people outside my small social circle. I just returned from a two day trip down to Denpasar and Ubud, and my mind feels clearer, and my heart a little lighter than it was a few days ago.

I’ve been thinking about the question that is posed to me now and again (probably more frequently than now and again when I come to think about it) about why I live in Bali. I was just reading some comments on an expat forum where several members were discussing how much they disliked Bali now after living here for some time, with one writer being literate enough to sum it all up as “Bali sucks.” OK, the emotion there was pretty clear, and the frustrations that expats sometimes feel here aren’t just made up: there are lots of frustrations to life in Bali that can wear on people like traffic, corruption, visa problems, the education system, lack of an infrastructure sufficient for the population size, poor health care, scam artists and on and on. The issue is how to deal with these frustrations of everyday life, if indeed someone wants to deal with it at all.

First, the idea that Bali is paradise is absolutely poison. People that move here with that mindset (and I know many who have and few of those who are left) are setting themselves up for disappointment. Paradise is an emotionally loaded word. Now I use the word in relation to Bali, but usually somewhat ironically, and that may be why I’m still here and why I’ll stay. Let’s look at a few of the problems and see how they pan out when we look at them from inside and outside Bali.

The Negatives

1. Traffic: True, traffic has become a nightmare in parts of the island. I wrote a few posts ago about sitting in traffic down in Sanur for over an hour. Try driving down Jalan Legian during the day and watch the folks on foot pass your car. But, I distinctly remember rush hour drives into Chicago and San Francisco when I thought that I’d never get to work. I get around the traffic problems by staying out of the main population areas unless absolutely necessary. If someone wants to live in Kuta, then it’s necessary to accept the traffic situation. Someday the Balinese authorities might develop a plan to deal with too many vehicles on too small roads, but probably not while I’m still on this planet.

2. Corruption: Dealing with some officials means being ready to either stick to your anti-corruption guns and being prepared to wait for a while for your documents, or you can hand over a little “uang rokok” to speed up the process. I grew up in Chicago and bribes and handouts to cops and judges and building inspectors was a way of life, just like it is here. You can go along with the system or buck it in either place. It’s all up to you. To say that Bali has the market cornered on corruption is to say that you haven’t seen how things work anyplace else. I think that things are getting better rather than getting worse, but that’s just my perception.

3. Visa problems: Yes, these are definitely a pain. Expats have more options than before though; the problem is figuring out exactly what the details of these options are. Another case of things getting better than things getting worse.

4. Education: Even the government admits that there are problems with the education system here. Some teachers, administrators and government officials are working to reform the system. I keep looking forward to the day when teachers are paid a decent salary and given the necessary professional development and support necessary to improve the system. Take a look at the United States education system and you see a lot of the same problems and a lot of the same mistakes being made in regard to standardized testing, government interference and such. The efforts of the Texas Board of Education to rewrite history is just one example of how badly things are going in the U.S.

5. Infrastructure problems: Too many people, too many hotels, too many swimming pools, too many vehicles. Not enough water, not enough electricity, not enough space on the roads. This may change eventually when enough people with vision are elected to run the government. Again, it will probably not happen on my watch, but I keep hoping it will for my kids and grandkids.

6. Healthcare: Bali is missing the boat by not getting in on medical tourism. I just talked to a Chinese/Indonesian friend who is on her way out to Singapore for an operation. 200 million plus. If you’ve ever been in Bumrungrad Hospital in Bangkok, you know how lucrative this business is. There are beginnings here to developing an international class of healthcare, but there’s still a long way to go. I still haven’t figured out what I’m going to do if I get seriously ill again, but it sure won’t be spending 200 million in Singapore.

7. Scam artists: It seems that I read more and more stories about expats, especially newbies, being tricked out of money usually over property transactions, but also over marriages where the local spouse is more interested in love than money. It’s always sad to read these stories, and I’m not one for blaming the victim, but sometimes folks just lack common sense (after all, how many of us didn’t behave like starry-eyed teenagers when we first came here). Potential expats need to do their homework and get information before they commit to moving here. And check, check, check. There is a lot of incorrect information on some of the forums. Newbies still use the “nominee” system for “buying” land, but the government has already come out in the press and said that they consider it illegal. Why would you give someone a huge chunk of money to do something that is, if not illegal, certainly on the margins of legality? We’ve all been through the “he’s just like my brother” phase of life here, especially before we actually settle down. I wouldn’t give my brother $150,000 to buy a house for me and hope that he would let me live there forever. And as far as legal documents go, well, that’s another story.

And love? It’s not only here where a spouse takes advantage of his/her wealthier partner. How many gold diggers are there in America, for instance? Marriage is a tough job no matter where you are. You’re always taking a chance. If this is the first time that you’ve been thought of as being wealthy, remember to protect yourself. You don’t want to be one of the unfortunate ones who have lost everything because of a bad marriage or a dishonest partner.

Next Post: The Positives

Living in the City: I Love Singaraja

I’ve lived in cities most of my life. First, Chicago and the suburbs, then San Francisco and the suburbs. Then Lahore, Pakistan. In between cities, I’ve lived in a mining camp in the mountains of New Guinea and in the jungles of Sumbawa. As much as I loved living in Papua and Sumbawa, I do have a thing for the city.

Why am I writing about the city today? I really don’t know, I was staring at the lights in the hills late last night, and this feeling of peace just sort of overwhelmed me.

the ring around the moon a few days ago

I’ve had a love and hate affair with Singaraja for 20 years now. Now that I’m retired, I enjoy living here more than ever. The city is not so big ( around 80,000 according to Wikipedia) that’s it overwhelming like Denpasar. I enjoy little trips every few days with my wife to go shopping for the snacks that I use as substitutes for cigarettes. The easy accessibility to shops with things that we need for the household is welcomed – back when I lived in Sumbawa, it was a 15 minute drive over some steep hills to get to the next town where I could shop.

The kids all have schools that seem to be acceptable. The curriculum isn’t bad, what little I hear from the kids though (who are just like kids everywhere – how was school today? Fine.) makes me wonder about some of the teaching techniques. But I could say the same thing about some of my former colleagues in international schools.

Rain, rain, rain. The local wisdom is that the rain will stop after Imlek – Chinese New Years which is just around the corner. As much as the rains will help the water situation, I really would like to see some blue skies.

A Beautiful Morning in Paradise (or isn’t it great to be retired in paradise?)

Absolutely lovely. A beautiful sunrise. No rain. Up at 5. What can be better than this?

this morning's sunriseMy youngest son decided that he wanted me to take him to school in the morning, so I was up today and out at 6 to drive Sam to school. Here it is now almost 7, and I’ve taken him to school, had a nice ride on the bike, a bracing cup of Balinese coffee, and I’m writing. Oh, I fed Seven as well. I have a productive day planned out – just staying at home doing some writing, recording a podcast, editing a few photos and some video, and teaching the kids some English.

I think that I’ll write until one o’clock this afternoon, then read some, take a nap, and then have a short English lesson with the kids. Now this is what retirement in paradise should be like.