Over a life, we interact with thousands of people – at work, at school, in the neighborhood and from the family – and all these people affect us in some small way. It’s one of those wonderful and terrible things that life inflicts on us. Out of all these interactions, a few take on a significance that changes our life in some substantial way. Bill O’Brien had that affect on me. I’ve been trying to remember when I first met Billy, but that was almost 45 years ago, and our memories tend to do some funny stuff when we get older. Friends get confused with other friends, incidents that we wanted to happen but didn’t suddenly seem to have occurred. Victories get inflated, defeats get diminished. We bring our past into line with our present by blending and bending the facts either purposely or not.
It could have been when I was living on Larrabee Street with Susie Rosenberg, but it more likely was when I was living on Armitage with Carl Davidson and Karen Gellen. Richard Monet lived in the front apartment back then. I became friends with Richard, and it may have been through him that I met Billy for the first time. Billy introduced me to the whole Lincoln Park group of people that he hung out with – most of them were involved with the movement. I’ve kept in touch with some like my old friend from Chicago and San Francisco, Pat O’Kiersey, for over 40 years.
Billy took on an older brother/mentor role from the start – trying to get me involved in one project or another. A lot of it had to do with writing, which I was very averse to at the time. I was this working class, hippy kid working for SDS who was trying to get as far away from my working class background as I could. Bill’s combination of advice, listening, and some timely history lessons helped me come to terms with my background and embrace it. He taught me about the rich history of the working class struggle and the development of unionism in the US. My involvement in the union movement came from those lessons of Bill’s.
Billy was a facilitator. Every time that we saw each other he had a new person that I had to meet. One of those meetings helped me get my job as a paperhandler – a job that provided me with a living for a good twenty years. Another person that Bill introduced me to got me involved with the Citizens Health Organization and opened up my interest in health-related issues that still concern me today.
Billy and I shared the love of a good drink; he and I started a Spring walking tour of the city’s bars back in the early 70s starting from Weiss’ on Lincoln Avenue and ending up at the newspaper bars down by the old Tribune and Sun Times buildings. As we moved from bar to bar (just one drink in each bar), Bill would tell me tales of the neighborhoods – their history, politics and special points of architectural interest. I absorbed more Chicago history on those long walks than I can remember now, but Bill was a man who loved Chicago, and even though it’s been over three decades since I left the city, it’s never far from my thoughts.My Indonesian wife had a chance to meet Bill on her first trip to the States. We wandered around Grant Park and the Taste of Chicago. He regaled her with stories of the city’s ethnic foods, and I dutifully translated all of his comments struggling to use just the right words to transmit his love of the place and its people. When I told Su the other day that Bill had passed away, she just shook her head and said, “I liked him. He was a good man.” I can’t think of any better tribute to my old friend. Rest in peace Bill, we’ll miss you.






